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By Dianna Bowes on 5/8/2013 9:07 AM
You Are!!  If you haven’t had a personal experience with this life changing treatment, then of course, you’re afraid.

The unfortunate thing, we in North America have not been educated about the colon.  We have not been educated on the healing effects of Colon Hydrotherapy.  This lack of education is costing us our

health and it is costing us the empowerment that comes from Self-Directed Healing without unnecessary pharmaceuticals.

The colon is a hugely important organ that directly affects:

·   Our Health

·   Our Energy

·   Our Moods

·   How good or bad we feel.

·   The level of pain we experience.

·   It influences whether we will experience disease in our lifetime.

When we feel ill we go to the doctor and receive a diagnosis.  A diagnosis is not the education we need to be seeking. 

Let Us Educate Ourselves on Prevention

Colon Hydrotherapy is a treatment that facilitates disease prevention. 

The colon is a very complex...
By Dianna Bowes on 5/7/2013 10:21 AM
spencer beachWhat inspires you? Is it a person, maybe a singer or a famous person like Oprah? For me it is usually someone who has had a difficult journey and makes sense of it by giving back to the community. One who has been given lemons and makes lemonade and share it to their circle of influence. Spencer Beach

I was invited to celebrate the 10 year anniversary of Spencer Beach’s accident. Spencer is a St. Albert man who was burned in a work accident to over 80% of his body with 3rd and 4th degree burns. To say he inspired me would be an understatement. He shared his feelings so openly and clearly that it was hard to listen to him at times. But the message I received loud and clear was about accountability and the importance of his family. He takes responsibility for what happened to him and decided to make a difference by reaching out to get the message out about working and living safe. He said people are surprised by him, because nothing rattles him. Spence says it is pretty simple, nothing is as important as his family, that they are happy , healthy and safe. That is as simple as it gets.

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By Dianna Bowes on 4/1/2013 11:25 AM
When someone asks you what you do for a living, do you tell them with enthusiasm or do you quickly answer the question and move on to the next topic? We would all love to be spending our days filled with joy and passion, but realistically how many of us truly know what we really want to be doing?  Many of us think retiring is the answer, then we can do anything we want. But do you have any idea what you want to do when you retire? As women, we need to be doing meaningful things that have a purpose and that fill our hearts.

Retirement

There may be bits and pieces of your job that you love, and something's you detest. Now is the time to start thinking about the bits and pieces you enjoy. For the next week, keep track of these moments, minutes or hours that you get lost in.

One of my fabulous at 50 members, recently retired from a long career...
By Dianna Bowes on 3/29/2013 7:48 PM
The move to my new place had been a long and difficult one. Late that night, my shoulders and back ached so much I longed for a hot bath. As I turned on the tap, I spied the chain dragging in the drain – the stopper was missing. I could have cried!

I wandered into the kitchen, pining for my soak with Epsom salts and lots of bubbles. A hot shower just wouldn’t do!  As my mind sifted through possible solutions, I noticed the lid from my travel mug on the counter.  Hmm – would it work? That lid tucked down over the outer drain ring perfectly, but I was sure it would float away from the force of the water. So I added some decorative rocks to the rim and voila! The tub started to fill. Sure, there was still some water leaking through, but enough stayed in the tub so I could have my soak. When I relayed the story to a friend the next day, she said, “That was so creative.”

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By Dianna Bowes on 3/9/2013 2:32 PM
As a women who has been hurt, judged and came from a past of neglect and abandonment, I can tell you that being vulnerable was something that I avoided like the plague. But what I realized was by not being vulnerable and opening my heart to love whole-heartedly, I missed out on having  joyful and close relationships. Losing my first husband at 20 numbed me to being vulnerable for many years. I was so afraid that if I loved someone that much and they left for whatever reason, that I would not be able to deal with it again. I just did not want to feel that pain again.

So I didn’t open my heart again until 10 years ago.

Thankfully I was given many lessons and gifts along my journey to wake me up to the necessity of being authentic. Just being me…whatever that meant.

There is nothing I love more than meeting and being around people who are courageous enough to just be open and show us me who they really are. Warts and all. I have been blessed to be surrounded by people who are comfortable enough...
By Dianna Bowes on 2/9/2013 9:18 PM
I don't have a bucket list written down, but I have a mental list. And I was able to check a couple off this year so far. My good friend Judy jumped at the change to purchase tickets to Oprah in Calgary and invited me along. Seeing Oprah has been on our bucket list for years. Even through I had only returned from my honeymoon the day before the Oprah event in Calgary, I packed a small overnight bag and jumped on the Red Arrow to Calgary with Judy. What I loved the most about Oprah was her sense of humor and her presence. She is so real, silly at times,  I felt like I was listening to a good friend. What a gift she has been to so many, her wisdom and willingness to share so much of her life with us is priceless. Finding the common thread

Oprah shared a concept about following the common thread through your life that could lead you to your passion. She talked about her experiences...
By Dianna Bowes on 2/4/2013 2:49 PM
Ovarian cancer is a silent killer, and it is often not detected until the disease is in its final, fatal stages. Early detection of the disease can mean the difference between life and death. Being an advocate for your own health, and knowing the signs and symptoms of ovarian cancer, is critical to timely treatment.

Ovarian cancer can be difficult to detect because the cancer originates deep within the pelvic cavity. According to the Mayo Clinic, ovarian cancer begins in the ovarian tissue in cells on the outside of the ovary, in the egg-producing cells, or in the cells that produce hormones. The cancer cells can travel and spread to other parts of the body before the site of the original cancer if found.

Some symptoms of ovarian cancer may be subtle and easy to ignore at first. If these symptoms persist or become more severe, they may indicate ovarian cancer. Signs of ovarian cancer include:

Abdominal bloating or a consistent feeling of fullness or pressure Pain in the pelvic or...
By Dianna Bowes on 1/29/2013 11:28 AM
Are you a front or back seat driver?

You have probably heard phrases like “you are judged by the people you associate with” or “your results I life are a result of the people you choose to have in your life”.  Our lives mirror the people we choose to associate with the most. Who do you associate with…. Front or back seat drivers?

Front seat drivers are people who support others; help them find their way, show patience when there is a detour or a wrong turn, and who offer to share the driving on a long or tiring journey.

Back seat drivers have the potential to drain your passion and deplete your positive energy. Backseat drivers often find fault with or complain about others, tell you what to do, or nitpick at issues. The great news is that you have the power to choose a) which type of driver you will be, and b) who you let in your vehicle...
By Dianna Bowes on 12/22/2012 4:21 PM
Dianna Bowes and John McEwan get married.Happy new year, I hope you brought in this new year with a bang, I did. I got married! Woohoo! On January 5th, 2013, my long time partner John and I tied the knot. We had our closest friends and family celebrate this wonderful event at Characters fine dining restaurant in Edmonton. We had a very personalized ceremony and followed it with a toast and a cocktail reception. Many people asked us why we didn't have a destination wedding and our answer was that we wanted people at the wedding that might not be able at afford to travel or like Johns father were not able to travel. Having our children stand up for us was very touching and surreal. So why get married after 10 years together? Good question. First answer is, I finally said yes and second John got his divorce finalized. He gave me the engagement...
By Dianna Bowes on 11/23/2012 11:15 AM
Imagine going to a mega mall that you have never been to, one where you could get lost in the parking lot, let alone in the mall. Amy and Emma had were overwhelmed by the size of the mall, and how they would find their vehicle after a day of shopping. As they entered the mall they noticed the “you are here” sign. Taking note of the current location was the first step in finding their car at the end of the day and navigating through the mall. This sign helped them Get Positioned for Success (GPS).

Recent Comments

Re: What Inspires You?
First off, thank you for sharing this story of inspiration. Second, please accept my condolences regarding your late husband.

Children in general are a great inspiration to me because they look at life through eyes of wonder. As to a specific individual, I would have to say Spencer West is a huge inspiration to me. I myself climbed Mt. Kilimanjaro with all my limbs in tact. I had some knee and foot issues along the way, but I did it. When I saw this video of Spencer West climbing for such an awesome cause, with no legs, I could not help but let the tears stream down my face. www.youtube.com/watch?v=rHWXGPgyj1c He is truly an inspiration. Thank you for letting me share.

Re: Happy Happy Happy New Year!
I am so very happy you two found each other. You're an inspiration to us all!! I wish you both many happy, joyful, exciting years to come!
Re: Lean Into Your Life!
Well said my friend. We've never had a problem communicating... I love our hour long phone chats but nothing beats getting together and sharing a hug. If I had to describe our friendship in one word... AUTHENTIC!!!!! Love ya soul sista (:
Re: Lean Into Your Life!
Well said Dianna. I gave up bitchin' to my Mom about my life back in my early 20s because it had occurred to me that I was running to her everytime I had a problem with my feelings instead of learning how to mature emotionally. I rarely bitch about my husband, my clients, co-workers, parent (my mom passed 4 yrs ago), but I am still working on not bitchin about my kids. I'll lean in a little harder.
Re: Are you living a charged life?
Hi, I have had a similar path, first of all thank you for sharing and what I would suggest is for you to get a coach or start doing some personal growth work. I have had a similar path, my husband was an addict, I raised my kids on my own and had a serious spine surgery that had me stop in my tracks for over a year.
The hardest thing for us as human being is to let go of the past. Embrace your past, forgive those who need forgiving (especially yourself) and move on. Nothing good can come from hanging on to the past. The only thing that can be changed is you, so working on yourself is the only solution. I know because I spent many hours and months focusing on me and my victim attitude.
If you are interested I could direct you to a couple of wonderful coaches that could help you with this.
I can tell from your message that you are a loving, caring women, you deserve a wonderful life, and you have the power and control to reach it, just you.
Dianna
If you want some referrals my email is dianna@fabulousat50.com
Re: Are you living a charged life?
I apologize in advance for ghe gloom of the following message. Your site is designed to be inspiaritional to this age and stage of our lives. I think tha's "fabulous." Oprah, Iyanla, Tony Robbins, Deepak Chopra all have inspirational slogans and beliefs they like to proselytize. A wealth of books target the same subjects. I've listened, and I'v read, heard cliches from friend, family and therapists. Despite my efforts, my question has yet to be answered. Here's my issue:

I knew my passion early in life; I studied for it and acheived my dream job; I was successful and passionate for the 30 years that I worked before I had to take a short term disability. Due to unexpected circumstances, that short term turned into a long term, and my career was over. I take satisfaction in knowing I suceeded in doing what I wanted, and I realized and was calmed by that closure.

I had a wonderful marriage to the love of my life for twenty-five years until I was blind-sided by his adultry which he turned into a public circus while I was on short term leave. I broke.

I was blessed with one spectacular daughter, the finest human being I have ever met. I k ow i have mothered to the best of my ability-she just graduated and is ready to begin her career. She is leaving, and most mothers will agree that although we raise our kids to do just that, it's heartbreaking when it happens.

I have volunteered at several organizations and disliked it. I studied another language, one which was to be useful during my husband's and my retirement. I have joined activities where women my age speak of husbands, travel, parties, etc. I moved from the burbs to downtown, realizing too late that I was way out of my demographic. All of my friends are married.

FINALLY the questionS: what do you do when you have fufilled your passions and know who you were meant to be? What do you do when family is your first priority by a loving choice, know you were meant to be a wife and mother also, and you find yourself with no family at all? What do you do when friends now only occasionally get together and you know that they all have someone at home who loves them? What do you do when all you can notice when out and about are people's wedding rings? What do you do when you know that you have been very fortunate to have found your true places and passions And they no longer exist?

DO YOU COMPROMISE THE REST OF OF YOUR LIFE??



Re: Independent Travel Made Easy – Hire a Private Guide
Thanks, great article.
Re: Are your relationships at a 10?
You never cease to invoke thought and inspire me. I am so very blessed to have you in my life. We connect on a level which few of my friends have reached. Love you my friend!
Re: Are you an original? Break Free From the Mold.
Love it ladies, thanks for your comments. I hope that my blogs reach some of your hearts. If you are interested in joining the Edmonton meetup. go go meetup.com and search Fabulous@50...

See you soon.

Dianna
Re: Are you an original? Break Free From the Mold.
Thank you for speaking into my heart this morning. I have always been "the original" one - the one that never stayed with the status quo. Visionaries are like that. It is only recently that I can truly say that I am gifted and talented and YES Different than the woman who must please each person and put herself last. I still do please people and still do put myself last, but I do it because I want to- not because it is expected of me.
How do I become a part of the tribe you are running with?